Kinky women in Madison

I want someone that can make me feel special but also show control when need. communication is big to me

2 truths and a lie: 1. Crazy girls have the best pussy. By far. 2. BBWs give the worst head. 3. if you're good at your job you might get bitten, and you'll definitely get cursed the fuck out. (but you'll keep coming back for more)

I am a 5’9 female looking to explore and discover stuff about myself. I know that’s vague but I have no idea what I’m looking for ??

Completely new to the scene. Looking for a soft dom to help me learn what I like with plenty of patience and praise that doesn’t put up with my bullshit. I want someone willing to walk me through things and explore!

II haven’t been a sub for long and while I enjoy being a sub sometimes I want to be a dom and take control too😈 I am pretty open to trying anything at least once. I appear very sweet and innocent but inside I’m a sexual little deviant. I am looking for someone to fuck me so good I forget my own name.

Curvy artist girlie, looking to meet new LOCAL people and make new friends, maybe more with the right connection. Very 420 and kink friendly, open to date nights and vacations 💕

Safety first… Need your test result before any real encounters🙂 Other than that I want to be spanked and slapped I am also afraid of being killed when tied up so it would be great if you can show you are a real person or a decent human being

I'm new to the bdsm and kink world, so I am finding out what I like and don't like, what turns me on, etc. I am looking to find someone willing to show me the ways and introduce me to new things sexually. I am eager to explore and try new things.

Strap in, this will be a long one. My name is Lexxi. I am 5 foot tall, curvy, brown hair, brown eyes. I am 28 years old, but get told all the time I look 20 (I've had partners ID me lol). I've done this many times now. And I feel like I always make some sort of compromise that makes it all come crashing down. So I suppose if I want exactly what I want, I might as well put that out there. So here goes. If I had to define myself, I would say I am a submissive masochist with a bratty outer crust. I'm going to lay out what I know I do in relationships and what I expect. Should make it easy for both of us. I like to move fast. If we're here, we both know what we want, and I want to start learning from day one whether or not we are compatible in ALL aspects. Once we've established a bit of a rapport and decided we want to get to know each other, I'll most likely start lightly bratting. I want to see where the boundaries are. I want to see how far I can stretch my leash before you pull it back. Starting there, I need someone that will hold the leash tight. The more space I have, the more I misbehave. It's a flaw. Fix it. Let's see if I can lay this next part out in a way that makes sense. I am a marketing manager for a large company. My job holds a lot of power, I feel very in control at work. I feel very confident in who I am and how people see me in my life. I like that to be torn down at home. I want you to be proud of my success, talk to me about my day, comfort me from my frustrations, celebrate my accomplishments. Then I want you to remind me where I belong and who I belong to. Namely, that would be you. I would fully belong to you. I am definitely looking for a TPE relationship. and I mean TPE. I want to get to the point that you are controlling the way I speak (to you and others), what I eat, if I'm allowed to spend ***, everything. As much as I am a highly successful career woman, deep down I'm a silly little sub that needs daddy/sir/master to tell me what to do. This requires you to be able to say no (I LOVE hearing no) and to be able to text/call often. I am needy and won't hide that, but you gain with me a fiercely loyal sub. For as much as I brat, and play with my boundaries, deep down, making you happy is what makes me happy. I want to be perfect. I want you to lift my chin while I'm on my knees, look in my eyes and tell me that I've pleased you and made you proud. Here are some things I know I love in a D/s relationship: Having my words controlled, such as no swearing, having to capitalize honorifics, things like that When I say "I mean" or "Technically" and you can HEAR I'm about to be a little brat and you interrupt me in that stern daddy voice Maintenance punishments to remind me of my place Lectures and scolding - This is a big one for me. Ya girl has some fierce daddy issues and a large praise kink. Make me answer your scoldings properly, ask me questions you know will be hard to me to answer, make me cry. I need you to have a scary voice and be a fan of the following: I text you something out of line, you call me simply to shut me down quickly. That phone call is always the scariest thing and I LOVE it. I love being scared. Nothing matches those butterflies. I act up in public (which I do, because public makes me feel safe from daddy), and you send me a voice message, forcing me to listen to it in public, and it is so terrifying that my knees buckle As you can see, I am a fan of voice. It's my favorite way to interact. You don't have to have a crazy, insane voice, but please for the love of God, don't *** it. Rules that make me better and solve problems I have. Like eating properly, going to bed, drinking water, etc. Adding a random sentence to make sure you're paying attention: If you message me, tell me your favorite pet name to use in your first message. Some more fun facts: I have a little/kitty side, she doesn't come out often, mostly in aftercare for intense scenes or when I really need to regress after some hard work days. I like to be trained. Don't hold back with rules and protocols, just be patient in teaching me to perfect them. NSFW video is something hard for me. It would take me a long time and can break a relationship if you ask for it too soon. I am typically fine with pictures and send them willingly. I live in Texas, I travel to Cali a lot, and I have no idea where I want to end up, so I'm open to relocation A lot of doms say "I don't want to take out my frustrations on you." Do. It. I have yet to have a dom reach my *** tolerance. My kinks: impact play (spanking with hand, paddle, cable, cane, really anything on any part of my body), TPE, orgasm control (edging, denial, ***d) - I want to try long term denial (doms are bad at this, they always want me to cum because I've been "good," I feel that doesn't matter. Deny me bc it's fun), toy play (I have lots of toys, am always happy to get more, and I have a Lush and Nora), positions, CNC, sleep play, name calling, light ***, ***, cock worship, breath play, *** play, wax play, lingerie, bondage, anal, bladder control, gag, chastity, deep throat, I'm sure there's some I haven't listed My limits: toilet play (other than bladder control), incest, age play (different from regression), giving ass play (receiving is A-OK), being ignored as a punishment (time outs are fine), race play, beastiality, blackmail, ***, cheating, permanent body markings/damage A limit that needs expanding: You cannot interfere with my job. As in, if I need to work, if I need to travel for work, etc., you cannot make a command or rule to not do that. What you can do is: *** me to take breaks, play with me/tease me while I'm working, still punish me for not completing a task or punishment because of work (leniency is your choice in that situation). Ideally, you: stay up fairly late, you are a daddy figure with a strict dom side but that can always come back to nurturing, find smart, successful girls attractive, are tall (5'8" or above), are fit-ish (dad bods are cool too), are experienced, know that you can be a nurturing, fun, loving daddy but a very strict dom. You also have a job in which you make a good amount of *** (as I do), and are able to travel/host sometimes. Outside of BDSM: I like to read, write, workout (I powerlift), watch anime, play video games, do crafty things, thrift, hang out at coffee shops, book stores, and parks. I like to hike and do outdoorsy things. I love trying new food and going out sometimes. I think I'm quite funny, but who knows honestly. Thanks for getting through all of this. I may edit it as I think of things to add or adjust. But, if any (all) of this sounds interesting to you, please message me ?

Born and raised Wisconsinite. I also am a gigantic nerd. I have varying interest in many fandoms fantasy/sci-fi genre based, but not much in American sports anymore. I love almost all forms of games: Board, card, TTRPG, PC, console, and arcade. But NOT mind games. I have no room for drama in my life, so manipulation and gossip about friends are a major turn-off. While I do enjoy a good movie or show, the amount of time spent in front of a TV has been decreasing more every year. I'm a huge extrovert, so I like to get out of the house and see places and try new things. Yes, I'm adventurous and a little spontaneous, but don't try to get me to play hookie from work or other previously established committments. Trust and reliability are important to me, and I also am not a fan of hypocrisy. I would ultimately like to find a solid connection with a fellow extrovert, preferrably as nerdy as I am, to go out on walks around town playing Pokemon Go, attend multiple farmer's markets, visit the free zoo nearby, and possibly accompany me to a friend's game night or two, if we get that far. No possibility is off the table, but I would like to take time getting to any kink play. That can be discussed in private, as well.

you know you want tooo🤤❤️❤️ (red hearts mean time of the month) if you live far af please don’t message me if your not trying to fuck please don’t message me if you’re less then 6 inchs please don’t message me sorry not sorry I just know what I want 😘🥰

If you can’t handle a big girl please be gone lmao. don’t ask “how big?” just assume I’m big as hell 🤣Just a college student needing someone who could be down at anytime and Pound my needy pussy. I love to be dominated and used so if you are vanilla this might not be the right stop. give me dirty talk! filthy dirty talk + hickies and we might have a blast. love bwc, race play and more filthy slutty things. What can I say, I’m just a girl who knows what she wants 🤷🏽‍♀️😉🤣

Short, soft, and a total booktok girl who still believes in real love. I’m 420-friendly, big on humor, and just want someone I can laugh with, be close to, and build something genuine with. Nothing wrong with a little healthy obsession — I want someone who’s as into me as I am into them 💕

You can call me Bug! I am the submissive of Tiberian. I'm polyamorous and I'm married to my wife of 12 years. I also have a Girlfriend of almost a year. I'm not looking for any other romantic or kink partners, or hook ups. I use Little Red Riding Hood as my Kink Persona. my Sir is my Huntsman. I'm looking to explore more kink events and communities within the Madison, wi and Chicago IL area.

scorpio ☀️scorpio 🌙 scorpio 🌅 no maga men or republicans. if you voted against the welfare and rights of women and other marginalized communities, you are not a good person. i don’t want ***! i’m looking for the person i’m going to spend my life with, not just hook up with. if you’re old enough to be my father or under the age of 24, don’t even bother. don’t message me some weird ass shit. i will call you out and then block you.

As the profile states, I am a submissive female. I've been captivated by the lifestyle for as long as I can remember. Actively participating in D/s the past 20+ years now. Kinda find myself flipping from a D/s relationship to vanilla relationship that doesn't satisfy...rinse, repeat. Would ideally like to break this cycle and be collared again. My interest are many and varied - the right Master can get me to do just about anything. ;) Main interests include bondage (especially Shibari), impact play, (especially flogging and spankings), tasking, orgasm control/training, anal play, servicing, and much more. If I can figure out how to list them all, I will. I am open-minded and will try almost anything three times...once is simply not enough to know if you truly like something. Ideal endgame for me would be a 24/7 D/s or M/s TPE relationship with someone who I not only feel a connection to, emotionally and physically, but with someone who has the same kinks as I do. I do have bratty days, so He should be able to either take it or tame it, hopefully a little of both. ;) You = an experienced, Dominant man who is confident, careful, protective, very firm, strict but fair, committed, compassionate, and dominantly assertive without being an ass. I won't get on my knees for just any man wielding a crop. Respect must be earned and yes, I realize this goes both ways. Also, the taller you are the better, as I love tall men and tend to wear very high heels. I don't really have a type when it comes to looks. For me, it's always a combination of things that attract and intrigue, not just one, static thing, like eye or hair color. Ooooh, except the tall thing lol Me = on the general side, I own and operate my own small business full time. I'm a witch, a Certified Usui Ryoho Reiki Grand Master and Teacher, and am attuned to various other forms of Reiki. I perform tarot, oracle, pendulum, palmistry and bone throwing readings as well as do spell work for others. I am also a Master Herbalist, Meditation teacher, Shadow work coach, and Crystal Healer. I'm a published romance author and avid reader. I love teaching classes and helping others, really cheap white wine, all types of music (except country.) traveling to see new places and meet new people. I'm a damn good cook, but can't bake for shit, I change my hair color with my moods, prefer cats over dogs, have lots of tattoos, (even on my fingers in case that's really not your thing.) I am an outgoing extrovert who can strike up a conversation with just about anyone. But, I also enjoy chilling on the couch, watching LOTR marathons or stupid Adam Sandler movies, (and promptyly regretting my life choices if it's the latter.) I LOVE concerts and try to go to as many as possible - I'm a big Maynard fan, so will be at every semi-close TOOL, APC or Puscifer concert (come say hi!) I spent 20 years as an advanced Tae Bo and every other kind of fitness instructor, until a few serious injuries made me have to switch careers. I still love dancing though. : ) Okay, I think I've rambled on enough. If you'd like to connect, please feel free to contact me. I am crazy busy, but will try to check in here at least weekly.

I'm a sub. I haven't came before. I'm in a dom sub relationship rn just like talking and getting to know more like mined people and to get new ideas I might not have thought of yet 😁

I am new to the lifestyle and am seeking a partner willing to teach me and dominate me. I am interested in exploring my kinky side with someone willing to help me figure out my hard and soft limits.

im a mom, i have a mom body and as my profile says im plus size, if you dont like a bbw plz move on. So now that thats out of the way. im a married mom that works alot and not in to bs games and travels for work. Dont waste my time if you don't want to get to know me and understand that I'm a busy woman.

I want someone that can make me feel special but also show control when need. communication is big to me

scorpio ☀️scorpio 🌙 scorpio 🌅 no maga men or republicans. if you voted against the welfare and rights of women and other marginalized communities, you are not a good person. i don’t want ***! i’m looking for the person i’m going to spend my life with, not just hook up with. if you’re old enough to be my father or under the age of 24, don’t even bother. don’t message me some weird ass shit. i will call you out and then block you.

Curvy artist girlie, looking to meet new LOCAL people and make new friends, maybe more with the right connection. Very 420 and kink friendly, open to date nights and vacations 💕

II haven’t been a sub for long and while I enjoy being a sub sometimes I want to be a dom and take control too😈 I am pretty open to trying anything at least once. I appear very sweet and innocent but inside I’m a sexual little deviant. I am looking for someone to fuck me so good I forget my own name.

As the profile states, I am a submissive female. I've been captivated by the lifestyle for as long as I can remember. Actively participating in D/s the past 20+ years now. Kinda find myself flipping from a D/s relationship to vanilla relationship that doesn't satisfy...rinse, repeat. Would ideally like to break this cycle and be collared again. My interest are many and varied - the right Master can get me to do just about anything. ;) Main interests include bondage (especially Shibari), impact play, (especially flogging and spankings), tasking, orgasm control/training, anal play, servicing, and much more. If I can figure out how to list them all, I will. I am open-minded and will try almost anything three times...once is simply not enough to know if you truly like something. Ideal endgame for me would be a 24/7 D/s or M/s TPE relationship with someone who I not only feel a connection to, emotionally and physically, but with someone who has the same kinks as I do. I do have bratty days, so He should be able to either take it or tame it, hopefully a little of both. ;) You = an experienced, Dominant man who is confident, careful, protective, very firm, strict but fair, committed, compassionate, and dominantly assertive without being an ass. I won't get on my knees for just any man wielding a crop. Respect must be earned and yes, I realize this goes both ways. Also, the taller you are the better, as I love tall men and tend to wear very high heels. I don't really have a type when it comes to looks. For me, it's always a combination of things that attract and intrigue, not just one, static thing, like eye or hair color. Ooooh, except the tall thing lol Me = on the general side, I own and operate my own small business full time. I'm a witch, a Certified Usui Ryoho Reiki Grand Master and Teacher, and am attuned to various other forms of Reiki. I perform tarot, oracle, pendulum, palmistry and bone throwing readings as well as do spell work for others. I am also a Master Herbalist, Meditation teacher, Shadow work coach, and Crystal Healer. I'm a published romance author and avid reader. I love teaching classes and helping others, really cheap white wine, all types of music (except country.) traveling to see new places and meet new people. I'm a damn good cook, but can't bake for shit, I change my hair color with my moods, prefer cats over dogs, have lots of tattoos, (even on my fingers in case that's really not your thing.) I am an outgoing extrovert who can strike up a conversation with just about anyone. But, I also enjoy chilling on the couch, watching LOTR marathons or stupid Adam Sandler movies, (and promptyly regretting my life choices if it's the latter.) I LOVE concerts and try to go to as many as possible - I'm a big Maynard fan, so will be at every semi-close TOOL, APC or Puscifer concert (come say hi!) I spent 20 years as an advanced Tae Bo and every other kind of fitness instructor, until a few serious injuries made me have to switch careers. I still love dancing though. : ) Okay, I think I've rambled on enough. If you'd like to connect, please feel free to contact me. I am crazy busy, but will try to check in here at least weekly.

I'm a sub. I haven't came before. I'm in a dom sub relationship rn just like talking and getting to know more like mined people and to get new ideas I might not have thought of yet 😁

I'm new to the bdsm and kink world, so I am finding out what I like and don't like, what turns me on, etc. I am looking to find someone willing to show me the ways and introduce me to new things sexually. I am eager to explore and try new things.

If you can’t handle a big girl please be gone lmao. don’t ask “how big?” just assume I’m big as hell 🤣Just a college student needing someone who could be down at anytime and Pound my needy pussy. I love to be dominated and used so if you are vanilla this might not be the right stop. give me dirty talk! filthy dirty talk + hickies and we might have a blast. love bwc, race play and more filthy slutty things. What can I say, I’m just a girl who knows what she wants 🤷🏽‍♀️😉🤣

I am new to the lifestyle and am seeking a partner willing to teach me and dominate me. I am interested in exploring my kinky side with someone willing to help me figure out my hard and soft limits.

Safety first… Need your test result before any real encounters🙂 Other than that I want to be spanked and slapped I am also afraid of being killed when tied up so it would be great if you can show you are a real person or a decent human being

Completely new to the scene. Looking for a soft dom to help me learn what I like with plenty of patience and praise that doesn’t put up with my bullshit. I want someone willing to walk me through things and explore!

Short, soft, and a total booktok girl who still believes in real love. I’m 420-friendly, big on humor, and just want someone I can laugh with, be close to, and build something genuine with. Nothing wrong with a little healthy obsession — I want someone who’s as into me as I am into them 💕

You can call me Bug! I am the submissive of Tiberian. I'm polyamorous and I'm married to my wife of 12 years. I also have a Girlfriend of almost a year. I'm not looking for any other romantic or kink partners, or hook ups. I use Little Red Riding Hood as my Kink Persona. my Sir is my Huntsman. I'm looking to explore more kink events and communities within the Madison, wi and Chicago IL area.

you know you want tooo🤤❤️❤️ (red hearts mean time of the month) if you live far af please don’t message me if your not trying to fuck please don’t message me if you’re less then 6 inchs please don’t message me sorry not sorry I just know what I want 😘🥰

im a mom, i have a mom body and as my profile says im plus size, if you dont like a bbw plz move on. So now that thats out of the way. im a married mom that works alot and not in to bs games and travels for work. Dont waste my time if you don't want to get to know me and understand that I'm a busy woman.

Born and raised Wisconsinite. I also am a gigantic nerd. I have varying interest in many fandoms fantasy/sci-fi genre based, but not much in American sports anymore. I love almost all forms of games: Board, card, TTRPG, PC, console, and arcade. But NOT mind games. I have no room for drama in my life, so manipulation and gossip about friends are a major turn-off. While I do enjoy a good movie or show, the amount of time spent in front of a TV has been decreasing more every year. I'm a huge extrovert, so I like to get out of the house and see places and try new things. Yes, I'm adventurous and a little spontaneous, but don't try to get me to play hookie from work or other previously established committments. Trust and reliability are important to me, and I also am not a fan of hypocrisy. I would ultimately like to find a solid connection with a fellow extrovert, preferrably as nerdy as I am, to go out on walks around town playing Pokemon Go, attend multiple farmer's markets, visit the free zoo nearby, and possibly accompany me to a friend's game night or two, if we get that far. No possibility is off the table, but I would like to take time getting to any kink play. That can be discussed in private, as well.

2 truths and a lie: 1. Crazy girls have the best pussy. By far. 2. BBWs give the worst head. 3. if you're good at your job you might get bitten, and you'll definitely get cursed the fuck out. (but you'll keep coming back for more)

I am a 5’9 female looking to explore and discover stuff about myself. I know that’s vague but I have no idea what I’m looking for ??

Strap in, this will be a long one. My name is Lexxi. I am 5 foot tall, curvy, brown hair, brown eyes. I am 28 years old, but get told all the time I look 20 (I've had partners ID me lol). I've done this many times now. And I feel like I always make some sort of compromise that makes it all come crashing down. So I suppose if I want exactly what I want, I might as well put that out there. So here goes. If I had to define myself, I would say I am a submissive masochist with a bratty outer crust. I'm going to lay out what I know I do in relationships and what I expect. Should make it easy for both of us. I like to move fast. If we're here, we both know what we want, and I want to start learning from day one whether or not we are compatible in ALL aspects. Once we've established a bit of a rapport and decided we want to get to know each other, I'll most likely start lightly bratting. I want to see where the boundaries are. I want to see how far I can stretch my leash before you pull it back. Starting there, I need someone that will hold the leash tight. The more space I have, the more I misbehave. It's a flaw. Fix it. Let's see if I can lay this next part out in a way that makes sense. I am a marketing manager for a large company. My job holds a lot of power, I feel very in control at work. I feel very confident in who I am and how people see me in my life. I like that to be torn down at home. I want you to be proud of my success, talk to me about my day, comfort me from my frustrations, celebrate my accomplishments. Then I want you to remind me where I belong and who I belong to. Namely, that would be you. I would fully belong to you. I am definitely looking for a TPE relationship. and I mean TPE. I want to get to the point that you are controlling the way I speak (to you and others), what I eat, if I'm allowed to spend ***, everything. As much as I am a highly successful career woman, deep down I'm a silly little sub that needs daddy/sir/master to tell me what to do. This requires you to be able to say no (I LOVE hearing no) and to be able to text/call often. I am needy and won't hide that, but you gain with me a fiercely loyal sub. For as much as I brat, and play with my boundaries, deep down, making you happy is what makes me happy. I want to be perfect. I want you to lift my chin while I'm on my knees, look in my eyes and tell me that I've pleased you and made you proud. Here are some things I know I love in a D/s relationship: Having my words controlled, such as no swearing, having to capitalize honorifics, things like that When I say "I mean" or "Technically" and you can HEAR I'm about to be a little brat and you interrupt me in that stern daddy voice Maintenance punishments to remind me of my place Lectures and scolding - This is a big one for me. Ya girl has some fierce daddy issues and a large praise kink. Make me answer your scoldings properly, ask me questions you know will be hard to me to answer, make me cry. I need you to have a scary voice and be a fan of the following: I text you something out of line, you call me simply to shut me down quickly. That phone call is always the scariest thing and I LOVE it. I love being scared. Nothing matches those butterflies. I act up in public (which I do, because public makes me feel safe from daddy), and you send me a voice message, forcing me to listen to it in public, and it is so terrifying that my knees buckle As you can see, I am a fan of voice. It's my favorite way to interact. You don't have to have a crazy, insane voice, but please for the love of God, don't *** it. Rules that make me better and solve problems I have. Like eating properly, going to bed, drinking water, etc. Adding a random sentence to make sure you're paying attention: If you message me, tell me your favorite pet name to use in your first message. Some more fun facts: I have a little/kitty side, she doesn't come out often, mostly in aftercare for intense scenes or when I really need to regress after some hard work days. I like to be trained. Don't hold back with rules and protocols, just be patient in teaching me to perfect them. NSFW video is something hard for me. It would take me a long time and can break a relationship if you ask for it too soon. I am typically fine with pictures and send them willingly. I live in Texas, I travel to Cali a lot, and I have no idea where I want to end up, so I'm open to relocation A lot of doms say "I don't want to take out my frustrations on you." Do. It. I have yet to have a dom reach my *** tolerance. My kinks: impact play (spanking with hand, paddle, cable, cane, really anything on any part of my body), TPE, orgasm control (edging, denial, ***d) - I want to try long term denial (doms are bad at this, they always want me to cum because I've been "good," I feel that doesn't matter. Deny me bc it's fun), toy play (I have lots of toys, am always happy to get more, and I have a Lush and Nora), positions, CNC, sleep play, name calling, light ***, ***, cock worship, breath play, *** play, wax play, lingerie, bondage, anal, bladder control, gag, chastity, deep throat, I'm sure there's some I haven't listed My limits: toilet play (other than bladder control), incest, age play (different from regression), giving ass play (receiving is A-OK), being ignored as a punishment (time outs are fine), race play, beastiality, blackmail, ***, cheating, permanent body markings/damage A limit that needs expanding: You cannot interfere with my job. As in, if I need to work, if I need to travel for work, etc., you cannot make a command or rule to not do that. What you can do is: *** me to take breaks, play with me/tease me while I'm working, still punish me for not completing a task or punishment because of work (leniency is your choice in that situation). Ideally, you: stay up fairly late, you are a daddy figure with a strict dom side but that can always come back to nurturing, find smart, successful girls attractive, are tall (5'8" or above), are fit-ish (dad bods are cool too), are experienced, know that you can be a nurturing, fun, loving daddy but a very strict dom. You also have a job in which you make a good amount of *** (as I do), and are able to travel/host sometimes. Outside of BDSM: I like to read, write, workout (I powerlift), watch anime, play video games, do crafty things, thrift, hang out at coffee shops, book stores, and parks. I like to hike and do outdoorsy things. I love trying new food and going out sometimes. I think I'm quite funny, but who knows honestly. Thanks for getting through all of this. I may edit it as I think of things to add or adjust. But, if any (all) of this sounds interesting to you, please message me ?