As the profile states, I am a submissive female. I've been captivated by the lifestyle for as long as I can remember. Actively participating in D/s the past 20+ years now. Kinda find myself flipping from a D/s relationship to vanilla relationship that doesn't satisfy...rinse, repeat. Would ideally like to break this cycle and be collared again.
My interest are many and varied - the right Master can get me to do just about anything. ;) Main interests include bondage (especially Shibari), impact play, (especially flogging and spankings), tasking, orgasm control/training, anal play, servicing, and much more. If I can figure out how to list them all, I will. I am open-minded and will try almost anything three times...once is simply not enough to know if you truly like something.
Ideal endgame for me would be a 24/7 D/s or M/s TPE relationship with someone who I not only feel a connection to, emotionally and physically, but with someone who has the same kinks as I do. I do have bratty days, so He should be able to either take it or tame it, hopefully a little of both. ;)
You = an experienced, Dominant man who is confident, careful, protective, very firm, strict but fair, committed, compassionate, and dominantly assertive without being an ass. I won't get on my knees for just any man wielding a crop. Respect must be earned and yes, I realize this goes both ways. Also, the taller you are the better, as I love tall men and tend to wear very high heels. I don't really have a type when it comes to looks. For me, it's always a combination of things that attract and intrigue, not just one, static thing, like eye or hair color. Ooooh, except the tall thing lol
Me = on the general side, I own and operate my own small business full time. I'm a witch, a Certified Usui Ryoho Reiki Grand Master and Teacher, and am attuned to various other forms of Reiki. I perform tarot, oracle, pendulum, palmistry and bone throwing readings as well as do spell work for others. I am also a Master Herbalist, Meditation teacher, Shadow work coach, and Crystal Healer. I'm a published romance author and avid reader. I love teaching classes and helping others, really cheap white wine, all types of music (except country.) traveling to see new places and meet new people. I'm a damn good cook, but can't bake for shit, I change my hair color with my moods, prefer cats over dogs, have lots of tattoos, (even on my fingers in case that's really not your thing.) I am an outgoing extrovert who can strike up a conversation with just about anyone. But, I also enjoy chilling on the couch, watching LOTR marathons or stupid Adam Sandler movies, (and promptyly regretting my life choices if it's the latter.) I LOVE concerts and try to go to as many as possible - I'm a big Maynard fan, so will be at every semi-close TOOL, APC or Puscifer concert (come say hi!) I spent 20 years as an advanced Tae Bo and every other kind of fitness instructor, until a few serious injuries made me have to switch careers. I still love dancing though. : )
Okay, I think I've rambled on enough. If you'd like to connect, please feel free to contact me. I am crazy busy, but will try to check in here at least weekly.